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3.29.2019

Deleting Facebook

Yesterday while running 4 miles (woo hoo!) and listening to a This American Life podcast called "Beware the Jabberwock" (about conspiracy theorists), I made the decision to delete the Facebook app off my phone. In the past couple weeks I have been contemplating whether I should do it and I decided to take the plunge.

It seems like every day there is a story about Facebook and the terrible things that they do (or don't do). Whether it is allowing hate groups to fester on the site leading to 700,000 Rohingyans having to flee Myanmar, allowing the spread of anti- vaccination information in this country leading to outbreaks of diseases that should be dead, or just simply not protecting the privacy of users, I am no longer okay helping the site make money. 

The podcast mentioned above was about Lenny Pozner, one of the parents who had a child, Noah, killed in the Sandy Hook shooting. There are disgusting Facebook groups that have published the Pozner's personal information- phone number, address, etc. People in those groups feed off each other and some become stalkers and/or threaten the Sandy Hook families (this unfortunately happens after every tragedy). The Pozners have had to move 8 times already because of threats. This seems to happen a lot- Dr. Christine Blasey-Ford has had to move 4 times after testifying against Brett Kavanaugh.

My use of the site, my clicks, the things that I read, the ads that pop up, etc. all contribute towards the bottom line of Facebook and I no longer feel comfortable using the platform. I personally am not in any of the above-mentioned groups and I understand the slippery slope argument with policing content. However, I have a choice to make...I don't pay for Facebook because of course the site is free, but I don't have to help them make money either. I do have to keep my account active because I run the monthly Bunco group out of Facebook, but maybe I can find a better place to house that as well. Either way, I am looking forward to reclaiming some time by not mindlessly scrolling through Facebook every day. 

Do you still have Facebook? 

11.14.2018

My new BFFs- Michelle and Oprah

I'm so behind on updating the blog! I am going to try to put together short posts to get caught up.

Since it is already on my mind, last night I was seriously lucky enough to get tickets to Michelle Obama's first book tour event in Chicago. It was billed an "intimate conversation" which was pretty funny because the United Center holds 23,000+ people. 






Oprah hosted and interviewed the event which was pretty cool. She looks like she has been rocking her Weight Watchers plan.


The event started with a long video of Michelle- her upbringing, her time in the White House, different appearances on shows like Jimmy Fallon or Dave Letterman. Then Oprah came out to talk for a few minutes before introducing Mrs. Obama. Their conversation lasted about two hours and it was really interesting. I haven't really seen any interviews this past week because life has been crazy so she may have talked about some of these things already....

The stage was pretty far away so at times it was easier to watch on the large monitors



One of the more interesting things Michelle talked about was how it felt like she was the "mom" of the country and Barack was the "dad." So while she is happy to be open about IVF, going through marriage counseling, etc. now she didn't really think that it was appropriate to talk about it while she was in the White House. There were so many other things going on at the time, she didn't want to be a distraction.




She also spent a lot of time talking about her experience in being the only woman or the only minority in the room with powerful men. Basically she spoke about how women and minorities' voices are important so we need to make sure to speak up. Also, there were tons of powerful men in these rooms but they weren't necessarily smart. :-) I'm butchering what she was saying, but it was powerful and true.




Anyway, I'm super happy that I was able to snag tickets for this hot event! I NEVER seem to get the hot tickets so the fact that I was able to get three (my mom and sister went with me) is amazing. Now excuse me as I have to call my new BFFs Michelle and Oprah. :-)

7.25.2017

Right now- July edition

Stealing this from Risa!
Right Now- July edition
Reading:  Do people have time to read anymore? I guess I read the Washington Post every day (especially the Daily 202). Other than that, I have started a book on my Kindle but now it has been so long since I started I have no idea what I am reading and will likely have to start over.
Watching: Game of Thrones of course. I'm so sad that this is a shortened season, but heard that the show runners are thinking about making every episode 90 minutes long next season which would be pretty awesome.
Listening: When I am on the train, it is usually a podcast- Pod Save America or Lovett or Leave It. I also enjoy the New York Times short podcast The Daily. When I am in the car with the kids, Izzy is also requesting the Hamilton soundtrack which is so much more enjoyable than the Frozen soundtrack! She says that her favorite song now is "You'll Be Back" (King George's first song) because she likes to sing the "da da da dat da dat da da da da ya da." Parenting WIN!
Drinking: Before camping I found that Starbucks makes an Caffe Mocha VIA product where you just pour the packet into hot water. I tried it out and it's really not bad, plus I get the caffeine kick that I need in the morning. It's a little over a dollar a packet so much less expensive than if I went to Starbucks to order coffee. When we got back from camping I bought four boxes and I currently drink one packet a day. I'm not sure why so many Facebook friends tried to turn me off from drinking coffee when I asked for suggestions a few months ago- the higher amount of caffeine in coffee is SO MUCH BETTER than the Refreshers/Spark/Chai Latte/Soda/etc. caffeine drinks. I'm not sure I will ever get to drinking black coffee, but for now this works.
Eating: I just had a snack of sugar snap peas, but I am starving. I'm trying to hold out for another 30 minutes until I have a lunch of a chicken salad sandwich and pretzels.
Wearing: A pair of capri pants that I bought at Kohl's and deemed fancy enough to wear to work, a shirt from Ann Taylor Loft and a black cardigan. Nothing exciting but it will be 80 degrees today and I didn't feel like wearing long pants.
Loving: Not having to bring bottles and formula into daycare every morning! It was so great to drop Wes off the past two days with NOTHING in my hands!!
Anticipating: The move back into our house on Saturday. CP and I are trying to move a bunch of stuff ahead of time to shorten the day as much as possible. Our general contractor said that the upstairs will be cleaned before we move back in, but how dusty is the rest of the house going to be? This should be interesting with a crawling toddler...
Hoping: That Buster's MRI shows something we can easily fix to get him better. Also hoping that the pet insurance that we just got for him will pay for whatever we will have to do!
Following: The state of Wes' mouth closely. His bottom left gum is extremely swollen which means another molar is going to erupt soon. The quicker it pushes through the better!
Wondering: How someone like Jared Kushner still has his top secret security clearance?!? He has amended his form three times because he "forgot" over 100 contacts with various foreign individuals. For literally anyone else in the government their security clearance would have been 
Trying: To determine how to go about eating better. Should I join Weight Watchers which I had success with before my wedding? Should I try to convince CP to do Whole 30 to try to deal with my sugar cravings? I'm consistently running three times a week and averaging about 10,000 steps/day yet it's not making a difference on the scale (I'm not necessarily running to lose weight but was hoping that it would be a by-product). I know that diet is 80% of losing weight so I think that I need to do something.
Worrying: That the Republicans are going to get their healthcare bill passed this week. No one even know what they are voting on (which is ridiculous in itself). How come John McCain doesn't see the irony of voting on a healthcare bill when he has just been diagnosed with brain cancer? Sure he has good healthcare and enough money, but if this bill passes, what about low-income people in his state that are diagnosed with the same cancer? Would they even have coverage? Would they have to file for bankruptcy just to stay alive? It boggles my mind.
Planning: I am thinking ahead to next year when I turn 40 and hoping to do a fun friend vacation (without kids) with some law school friends. One of the friends found a place in Iceland where you can stay in a hotel bubble so that you can watch the Northern Lights!  Fingers crossed we can get a grandparent to watch the kids so that we can go somewhere. I definitely want to celebrate 40 in style.
Contemplating: How nice it will be to have a treadmill at our house! CP already bought it and it is scheduled to be delivered with our kitchen appliances. I can't wait to use it on days where it is raining or too cold to go for a run outside. I think that I want to continue running in the morning as much as possible, but it is really going to be great for when CP is traveling, when the kids are down for naps, etc. YAY!!!!

5.25.2016

Currently listening

Yesterday I mentioned cleaning while listening to podcasts, so I thought that I would give an update on all of the podcasts that I am tuning into these days. Most of these podcasts have "seasons" which means that I am thankfully not trying to listen to 10+ podcasts on a weekly basis.

NPR Podcasts
Embedded- This is a fairly new podcast hosted by Kelly McEvers (who also hosts NPR's All Things Considered). Every week she takes a topic and does a deep dive into it for about 40 minutes. The first episode really hooked me as she followed the story of Opana users in Indiana (her second to last episode gave an update on one of the users too). I look forward to every episode.

Invisibilia- This podcast ended its first season back in February of last year but just updated that new episodes will be starting next month! Hopefully this season will be longer than the first one as I found every story fascinating (enough to write a blog post about one of the episodes).

Serial- Ahhh the original podcast that got me started on listening to podcasts. As most of you know, the first season about Adnan Syed was amazing. I wasn't super excited about the second season focusing on Bowe Bergdahl so I sort of shelved the podcast for a while. Now that the second season has ended, I have downloaded all of the episodes and I am binge listening to them and finding it very enjoyable once again. I'm curious to see what they cover next season.

Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me- I don't subscribe to this podcast, but I do listen to it if I miss the show on Saturday mornings on NPR.

Freakonomics- I also don't subscribe to this podcast, but will listen to the shows every once in a while when I think the topic is interesting. I definitely listen to it more when Game of Thrones is not on and I have more time for other podcasts. :-)


Game of Throne Podcasts
Yes, I can't believe it but I have a category for just GOT podcasts as I have NEVER gotten this into a show, but I do listen to THREE different podcasts. I'm such a nerd.

EW's Game of Thrones Weekly- I just started listening to this podcast this year and I find the hosts to have an interesting discussion of the show. Plus sometimes they have insider tips because they interview people on the show.

Nerdette Recaps Game of Thrones with Peter Sagal- I love me some Peter Sagal (host of Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me- see above) so last year when I heard about this podcast, I knew that I had to listen. The hosts have a good rapport with each other and make the recap funny so it is always the first GOT recap that I listen to.

A Cast of Kings- A Game of Thrones Podcast- Sometimes the hosts get too down on the show and are too picky, but overall I like that one of the hosts hasn't read the books (like me) and the other host has read the books. 


Misc. Podcasts
Jesse vs. Cancer- Originally I was tipped off about this podcast by Mel and I got hooked pretty quickly. Jesse Case is a comedian that has Stage 4 ass cancer (his phrasing) and while sometimes he can go off on rambling topics that have me fast forwarding the podcast, his frank talk about cancer and other things in life is really interesting.

Criminal- This mostly weekly podcast has fairly short (20-30 min) episodes on a huge variety of topics. One week they will dive into an 1800s murder case, the next week they are talking to a courtroom sketch artist, the following week they are talking about a case where someone poisoned a huge tree in TX. You never know what you are going to hear on this podcast.

Mystery Show- A quirky podcast of (so far) only 6 episodes. The premise is sort of silly- this woman finds "mysteries" that can't be solved just by Googling and proceeds to try to solve them. I think that what makes this podcast so interesting is that she has a knack of getting random people to open up to her so you hear random backstories that are fascinating despite their lack of ties to the investigation.

Limetown- A fictional podcast about 300 people that disappear from a town in TN. The host of the podcast works for an NPR-like organization and chronicles her investigations into what happened to everyone. There were a few characters that needed to dial down their acting on the podcast, but I did get hooked at the beginning and couldn't stop listening. I hope there is a second season!

My sister's podcast- Because this blog is anonymous, I actually can't name my sister's podcast but I do look forward to listening to it every week. She has had a good range of guests on the show and she is rather funny. For Mother's Day she actually interview my mom for the show and her intro on how amazing our mom is made me want to cry on my walk to work.


So that's what I listen to these days....mainly on my train ride to/from work, my walk to/from the train to work, when cleaning, and when taking Buster for walks. I find that I haven't been reading any books lately because if I have time, I am listening to podcasts! Do you have a podcast that you love that isn't on my list? Please tell me about it!

12.17.2015

Invisibilia

Last night on my train ride home I was listening to the NPR Podcast Invisibilia. I have recently become obsessed with this podcast and I'm sad that it only has 6 episodes. Hopefully season 2 comes out soon as I have one episode left to go.

Anyway, this podcast was about the power of categories. People want and need to be placed in categories- are you a dog person or a cat person? Are you male or female? We are very uncomfortable with people who don't neatly fit into one category or another, and the person that doesn't fit into a category feels uncomfortable as well.

Towards the end of the podcast, the hosts were talking about an Indian retirement community in FL. The founder of the community decided that he didn't want to go back to India to live out the rest of his life because his family was here in the US (amongst other reasons), so he thought that he would create a mini-India retirement community in FL, complete with yoga classes, mediation, palm trees, Indian decor, etc. He started to sell the units right as the recession hit but instead of having issues selling the condos when bigger condos were being sold for less right across the street due to foreclosure, he quickly sold out and had to build more units (which then sold out quickly as well). Turns out that when people fear death or see death coming sooner rather than later, they become racist and want to be with people like themselves.

The host spoke to a psychology professor that has researched what happens when people are facing death. Experiments like asking what happens to you when you are physically dead or asking questions outside a funeral home tend to make people more negative towards other cultures and become more nationalistic. The professor seems to think that it is something about the threat of disappearing. But if you are surrounded by people like you, either in culture, religion, or something else, then you still matter, you are still here.

This is fascinating and most likely why Donald Trump's racist thoughts are resonating with the older white group here in the US. I would argue that all of the Republicans are running on a platform of fear. Fear of terrorism, fear of people taking our jobs, etc. makes his supporters want to surround themselves with people just like them. Thus they all believe that our country needs to ban Muslims and curb immigration from other countries (especially those south of us because they don't look like us either).

This isn't to give an excuse to all of the people supporting these insane proposals, but it does give me some insight into why they might be doing so. I don't have anything to wrap up this post in a neat and tiny bow, but just thought that this was a fascinating podcast that was very relevant to the past few weeks!

11.18.2015

Clowns and IVF

Did you guys see this TIME article on how the use of "medical clowns" increased pregnancy rates?  

"A study of 229 Israeli women undergoing in-vitro fertilization (IVF) to treat infertility found that a 15-minute visit from a trained “medical clown” immediately after the embryos were placed in the womb increased the chance of pregnancy to 36%, compared with 20% for women whose embryo transfer was comedy-free."

First off, what is a medical clown? 

Secondly, I have already emailed CP to start preparing for his routine next month. :-)

10.23.2015

Diary of a Bad Year

Yesterday when driving to pick up Izzy at daycare after work, there was a story on NPR about Kelly McEvers' radio documentary "Diary of a Bad Year." Kelly recently hung up her flak jacket as a war correspondent and became a co-host on "All Things Considered", NPR's afternoon show.

I have always wondered how people could put themselves in danger; I didn't understand how they could put themselves on the front lines. Turns out that people who are attracted to extreme sports and jobs such as being a war correspondent have more dopamine in their body than those of us "boring" people. It drops for everyone over the course of their lives so that is why I did things like sky diving in my 20s but would probably think much harder about doing something like that these days.

During my walk today with Buster I listened to the hour-long documentary. I tried to hold back the tears as Kelly interviewed Sebastian Junger (writer of A Perfect Storm and War, also a former war correspondent). Sebastian said that once a close friend of his died while covering a story, he decided that he had to quit. He started to think about the fact that holding a job like his, where you are making life and death decisions every day, you are gambling with other people's sorrow. You are dead so you don't have to see the pain that you have caused others from your death. Just thinking about that concept placed a huge weight on my shoulders and chest; it literally felt like I weighed more as I tried to walk Buster.

I have thought about this before...the what would happen if I died soon. Of course I would be heartbroken to miss so much of Izzy's life, but really, I would feel much worse that I wouldn't be around for her. In the documentary Kelly also interviewed the daughter of a war correspondent and at 42, she was still upset that her father had chosen his work over spending time with her. I feel comfortable in saying that neither CP nor I chose work over Izzy. We worked so hard to have her and both chose to spend time with her over work. Once we get home from work we are present and enjoying our family time.

Already Izzy asks for CP when he is on a trip. I can't even imagine how difficult it would be to have to explain over and over that Daddy wasn't coming home. Thank goodness CP and I don't need an adrenaline rush at work. I suppose that I probably could never have even married or dated someone that needed that rush.

I realize that anyone could die at any second and the fact that I am not a war correspondent doesn't make me immune from death. However, maybe I have a chance at living longer because I don't put myself in harms way on a daily basis. Either way, I would highly recommend this documentary. I still don't understand how running away from gunfire or mortar attacks could be "fun"- especially when you have a family- but recognize that war correspondents question themselves and why they want to do the work as well.

9.14.2015

Interview

This weekend I had the weirdest dream. Don't worry I won't go into too many details, but it involved having to go to a public place to print off IVF documents and running into two other women doing the same thing. Instead of being supportive as we were all going through the same experience, they made fun of me and made me start crying. Good thing this was just a dream.

Speaking of support, for anyone that misses the Bitter Infertiles podcast and wants another infertility podcast to listen to, there is now Beat Infertility. I have been listening for a while now and finally decided to submit myself as a success story. I spoke to Heather on Friday and my episode went live today! If you have ever wanted to hear my voice here is the link: Dual Factor Infertility. I listened to the episode this morning and don't think that I sound like too much of an idiot. :-)




Heather is looking for more success stories so if you want to be a part of the podcast go here.

Thanks for letting me tell my story Heather! It was fun to talk to you and I hope that my story and advice can be helpful for someone listening out there!

12.23.2014

Glad I am not the only one

Every time I heard Iggy Azalea's song "Black Widow" on the radio, I was so confused. Why is this woman talking about a black widdle baby? Why is she is using baby talk in the middle of a song? The lyrics are sort of offensive. Could she be saying something else? 

OHHHHHHHHH she is saying that she is a black WIDOW. Oh that makes MUCH more sense. 

Thankfully, I feel better that I am not the only one that thought this. Someone on YouTube put together all of the misheard song lyrics on some of the biggest songs of the year and Black Widow was one of them. They are actually pretty funny- check it out:





Did you mishear any song lyrics this year?

6.24.2014

New tv habits

One of the aspects that has changed a bunch in my life since having Izzy has been my tv watching. If you have  been reading long enough, I was a big fan of the Real Housewives franchise....even going so far as to see one of the NJ housewives when she came to a local bookstore (more for the people watching- not to actually buy a book or meet her). I even blogged about it! But last fall, I knew that I had to make some changes. My interest for tv shows such as the Real Housewives, Couples Therapy, and Revenge was waning, so I decided that if I wasn't chomping at the bit to watch the next episode on the DVR, then it wasn't worth my time.  Ditto for shows that I still enjoy like Property Brothers or House Hunters.  Sure the shows are fun to watch, but really I'm just killing 30 minutes of time instead of getting something useful done. Not to mention that I wanted to pare down the number of shows that I watched that CP didn't watch.  So if I was watching tv, it was at least something that we both would watch.

Once Izzy arrived, the tv was in the background during the day early on because she was sleeping so much, I was still recovering from the c-section, and we couldn't go outside because it was SO FREAKING COLD. However, once I was home alone with Izzy with no visitors, the tv was off the entire day so that I could spend one-on-one time with her. When CP got home from work, while she was either nursing or sleeping, we binge-watched the first season of House of Cards and then slowly made our way through The Wire (both are shows that I would HIGHLY recommend). Around 2 months old though, Izzy started to notice that there was a contraption with fancy lights that intrigued her....so off the tv went when she was not in her crib. (The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no tv prior to age 2.

During the week we only get an hour or two with Izzy before I start her nighttime routine- I certainly don't want to spend that watching tv. Usually we spend the time playing with her, taking her outside, trying to get her to try the puree we have made for her, etc. We usually wait to have dinner ourselves until after Izzy goes to bed so that CP can also get some quality time with her instead of being in the kitchen. Then of course there is cleaning, bills to be paid, household things to be done, etc. all before I can relax.

So what do we deem worthy enough to watch these days in the hour or so that we have before heading to bed?

Game of Thrones
Grey's Anatomy*
Scandal*
Parks and Recreation
Modern Family
Family Guy
House of Cards
Orange is the New Black 
Last Week with John Oliver
The Daily Show
True Blood
Homeland
Friday Night Lights**

*These are the two shows that I watch without CP because he thinks they are ridiculous (he is right).
**CP also doesn't watch this show.  I watch it on my iPad when I am pumping on the days that I work from home, so it's taking me FOREVER to get through the various seasons.

We may try to watch The Leftovers, the new show that premiers on HBO on Sunday.  It looks interesting.

Now that I check out my list, I can see that I have 0 reality shows on it.  That is pretty amazing for someone that thought that Temptation Island was the best show in the entire world for a few years.  :-)

What tv shows do you deem worthy enough of your time?

7.31.2013

Random tidbits

*I finally heard from my doctor after asking them if it was a problem that CP had pneumonia.  They asked what kind he had (viral or bacterial) and I wasn't sure the doctor at the outpatient clinic even told him.  But once I told the nurse that he was taking antibiotics, she said that he had the "good kind" of pneumonia- aka the non-contagious one (bacterial).  However, she was concerned that I had a sore throat and that I was producing some yellow phlegm so she put me on an antibiotic.  I didn't think that it was totally necessary as I basically feel fine, but the Z-pack is safe during pregnancy so I decided to get rid of whatever is in me.

*CP and I went to our local farmer's market on Saturday.  We were getting fresh veggies and fruits to can and freeze.  We ended up making Raspberry Preserves, Caribbean Peach Chutney, tons of pesto from basil in our garden, and tons of chicken stock.  Oh, and I was able to get 12 ears of fresh corn for $4 so I was in heaven!!

Raspberry preserves on the left, Caribbean Peach Chutney on the right


*CP started reading his Expectant Father book.  I randomly picked it up to see if it said anything about being extra nice to your wife (ha ha ha) and noticed that the author had a small section on infertility.  The author was explaining how the embryo is implanted into the uterus during IVF.  Thankfully in the front of the book the author included his email address for any comments or questions.  I decided to email the author to let him know that he should change the terminology from "implanted" to "transferred."  If all embryos were implanted during IVF then everyone would get pregnant!  To my shock the author wrote back a few minutes later thanking me for my email and saying that he was going to be doing an update of the book and that sort of information is helpful.  

*We have one more week of helping lift Fuzzy Britches up and down the stairs to take her out.  I'm crossing my fingers that next Wednesday the vet gives her the all clear to take the stairs herself because it is getting harder to lift most of her 76 pound body up and down a few stairs the bigger I get.

*The past two days my ankles have been swollen despite it not being that hot out outside.  After helping to make dinner, I sat my butt on the couch and put my feet above my heart the rest of the night to try to get the swelling to go down.  It didn't really do anything so I ended up sleeping on my back last night with my feet on the Snoogle plus two more pillows.  Of course when I woke up this morning I was convinced that I had killed the baby because I slept on my back.  I was relieved to feel movement after drinking some orange juice this morning, but I simply don't know what to do with this stupid swelling.  I keep telling myself that although it is annoying, swelling is SO MUCH BETTER than morning sickness and/or not being pregnant.

*I finally was able to sit down and watch MTV's True Life episode about infertility.  I think that the ladies did a great job and I'm proud of them for putting themselves out there.  The random thing about it was that the Chicago couple not only had the same RE doctor as me but also went to the same clinic for both appointments and for the retrieval/transfer (they were in two different locations).  Crazy!!

*On Friday CP and I have three daycare tours lined up.  I have no idea what to ask- any suggestions on things that we should be thinking about?

7.25.2013

MTV and Infertility

Just an FYI, MTV will be airing the True Life: I'm Desperate to Have a Baby THIS SUNDAY.  A quick check here in Chicago shows that it will air at 1pm Central time.  Our Misconception will be one of the two infertile couples featured.  I'm looking forward to it!

3.19.2013

Spring 2013 planting

I made good use of my bed rest/free time on Sunday.

First, after reading about a documentary called "The Staircase" in Entertainment Weekly, I decided to try to watch all of the episodes OnDemand.  Unfortunately, they only had the last two parts of the documentary, but I found the earlier parts on the Sundance Channel's website and YouTube.  The documentary is pretty good and with each episode you go back and forth on whether the husband is guilty or not.  (I'm currently on episode #5.)  I don't usually watch the Sundance Channel, but they have been hyping up another miniseries called 'Top of the Lake" with Elizabeth Moss (from Mad Men).  I've been hearing good things about that series as well so I DVR'ed it last night.

My other major task on Sunday was to plan out our front, side, and back flower gardens.  If you remember, this past fall we hired a landscaper to come out to the property and rip out all of the nasty, overgrown bushes and ground cover (Before and After pictures).  Well, now everything is bare so we have to spend some money on making everything look pretty!

I spent a considerable amount of time figuring out when everything would bloom and trying to space that out throughout the spring and summer and also looking at height/spacing/a variety of shapes/ etc.  I planted tulips and daffodils last fall and they are just starting to peep out of the ground.  My goal on Sunday was to find no-care or low-maintenance perennials so that I could plant them and forget about them!

Here what I have ordered for this year:


Front of the House Garden 
(will not have full sun because of a large tree)

Black Eyed Susans.  Had these in CT and loved them.


Cherry Brandy Black Eyed Susan.  I've never seen this before and I needed some red.


Pink Sensation Aconitum.
I had never heard of Aconitums, but they were recommended by my mom's Perennial book for no-fuss and no problems with insects.


Napellus Aconitum



Darwin's Blue Veronica


Twilite Prairieblues Bapista.
Another plant I have never heard of but gets high marks from the Perennial book.


Solar Flare Prairieblues Bapista


Behind the House and Garage 
(little/no sun) 

Blue Mouse Ears Hosta.
I bought this partly because the name is adorable.  :-)


Blue Mammoth Hosta.
As the name suggests, these get pretty big.


Tokudama Flavo-Circinalis Hosta

Side of driveway (mostly sun)

For this area, I went with all daylilies that bloom at different times of the summer.

Frans Hals Daylily


Black-Eyed Stella Daylily

Pardalinum Tiger Lily



Red Tiger Daylily

Pink Tiger Daylily



Strutter's Ball Daylily

Yellow Tiger Daylily


Did I mention how much I like flowers?  :-)

Any suggestions on some of your favorite no-fuss perennials? 

CP and I are also working on planning out our garden beds this year. I can't wait for fresh veggies once again!



*Pictures from Hollandbulbfarms.com and Rootsrhizomes.com (where I bought the plants).  This is not an advertisement for these companies nor have I been given free plants (boy that would have been nice!).*

10.30.2012

Liebster blog award


How are all of the bloggers out on the East Coast?  I hope that you guys are doing okay today.  One of my friends that lives on the Jersey Shore coast had to be evacuated from her house today- yikes.


The Barren Librarian bestowed a Liebster blog award on me yesterday. Awwww how nice of her!  What is a Liebster Blog Award? The Liebster Blog Award is given to up-and-coming bloggers with less than 200 followers, and nominated by fellow bloggers. Liebster is a German word meaning sweetest, kindest, nicest, dearest, beloved, lovely, kind, pleasant, valued, cute, endearing and welcome. I now have the honor of answering her 11 questions, and then nominating 11 awesome bloggers to answer MY 11 questions! So...here are my answers to the questions! 

1.       What’s your favorite pizza?
Being that I am from Chicago my favorite pizza is Edwardo’s deep dish pizza with sausage and green peppers. Thankfully there is no Edwardo’s around me or else I would weigh 100 pounds more than I do.  If you are not in Chicago you can order and have it shipped to you!

2.       What movie could you watch every day for the rest of your life and still not hate it?
Probably something from my childhood like The Goonies or The Princess Bride.  Timeless movies that I hope to share with my kids someday.

3.       If you had to choose between working a job you loved for your whole life or not working at all for your whole life, which would it be?
I would rather work a job that I loved.  I’m the type of person that wants to make an impact on the world and if I just farted around all day, I wouldn’t accomplish anything.  Work gives me structure and makes me feel like I am making a difference.  Even though I am not a fan of my job, I would rather work and help CP pay the bills than watch daytime tv and be bored on the couch. 

4.       Favorite place to buy clothes?
For work clothes I like to shop at New York & Company because they sell pants for tall women and the clothes are not too expensive.  For lounging around clothes I have been buying a whole lot of Columbia stuff at outlets.  Their clothes are seriously comfortable.

5.       Mac or PC?
I’m absolutely a PC girl.  My parents have a Mac and I hate trying to use it.  That being said, I do like our iPad and my iPhone.

6.       Would you live anywhere but where you are living right now?
I’m enjoying living in Chicago again, but I still miss the mountains of Denver.  I would move back there in a heartbeat.

7.       Favorite musical artist?
I’m not really good at these favorite questions because it really depends on my mood and the day.  But there are a few artists that I can ALWAYS listen to:  Michael Franti & Spearhead, Jack Johnson, John Mayer, Rodrigo y Gabriela, and Widespread Panic.  More recently I can’t get enough of Mumford & Sons, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros, and Of Monsters and Men.

8.       What cause would you champion (not necessarily IF related) if you were a rich and famous celebrity?
The problems with our food these days.  The problems with GMO foods, the ridiculousness behind not labeling GMO foods, and the crap that we as Americans are putting into our bodies every single day.  That also extends to the chemicals that are in so many of our beauty products.  

9.       What number one celebrity would you marry if your significant other wasn’t in the picture?
Honestly?  I wouldn’t marry any celebrity.  Being married to a celebrity means that I would be thrust into the limelight- something that I am NOT interested in doing.  Plus celebrities have all kinds of self-esteem issues and are surrounded by “yes” people.  No thanks.  Not interested.

10.   What words do you hate to say?  
Panties.  I refuse to use that word. 

11.   Biggest pet peeve?
People who are late and don’t call.  We all have cell phones these days….if you are running late just shoot a text or quickly call me to let me know.


My 11 awesome bloggers (I did my best to not award a blogger that had already been awarded):



These bloggers must answer the following questions:
1.  If you could do any job in the world (money being no object), what would you do?
2.  What is your favorite Halloween candy?
3.  If the possibility ever arose, would you live abroad?  If so, in what country?
4.  Where is the most romantic place (LOCATION LADIES NOT A BODY PART- get your mind out of the gutter!) you have ever been kissed?
5.  Red or blue?
6.  What movie makes you cry every time you watch it?
7.  Do you watch the Real Housewives on Bravo?  If so, which cast is your favorite?
8.  What would you eat for your last meal if you were on death row?
9.  If you could trade places with someone for a day who would it be and why?
10.  Sunrise or sunset?
11.  How many states and/or countries have you lived in?


Have fun!  Can't wait to read your answers!  

9.28.2012

Today


Today I am counting the hours until I can curl up on the couch under a blanket and probably break open a bottle of wine.  It’s windy today in Chicago.

Today I am also counting down the hours until CP gets home.  Unfortunately he arrives at the same time as a first birthday party for our friends’ twins, so I won’t see him until I get back from the party.

Today I am jealous of all of the women walking around downtown Chicago with riding boots on.  I’m not morbidly obese (just barely obese per the BMI), yet my ridiculously muscular calves keep me from fitting into boots.  I even went to DSW last night and tried on all of the “wide leg” boots.  Nothing fit.  Grrrr.

Today I am hopeful that I didn’t get the flu shot for the second year in a row for nothing.  It is free through work, but I generally wouldn’t get it unless I was thinking about getting pregnant this year.

Today I am looking forward to even more shows returning on tv.  Grey’s and Scandal last night, Revenge, Homeland, Dexter, and a new show, 666 Park Avenue all start on Sunday.

Today I am excited to have found a gym in our town.  It’s less than $70/month for the two of us to join and has a pool (with lap swim hours), a basketball court, an indoor track, plenty of treadmills, stair climbers, ellipticals, bikes, etc.  It also has classes and personal trainers that you have to pay extra for, but at least they are available.  Plus it’s not that far from my house so I hope to get up in the mornings and work out!

Today I am excited that I will have spring flowers next year!  Groupon had a special yesterday for Holland Farms and with it I ordered daffodils, tulips, and crocuses.  Even if we don’t have time to take down the awful 70s bushes in the front of our house before spring, I can still plant pretty flowers that will make me feel better about the outside of our house!

Today I am happy that my boss nominated me for a project and I’m really hoping that instead of the 2-3 hours a month we are expected to work on the project, it turns into a whole lot more so that I can stay busy.

Today, along with every other day that I come downtown, I am reminded that although I hate my job and I’m bored, I’m still lucky to have a job. 

What are you feeling today?

9.25.2012

Uterine transplants

I'm not sure how many IF bloggers this story would pertain to, but possibly some hope if you have a bum uterus:


Swedes Perform Pioneering Uterine Transplants; Americans Not Far Behind  (Story from NPR)




A Swedish medical team has transplanted uteruses from two women in their 50s to their daughters. Meanwhile, Shots has learned that an Indiana group is recruiting women willing to undergo womb transplants in this country.
"We could go ahead tomorrow if we found the perfect candidate," Dr. Giuseppe Del Priore told Shots.
Del Priore says he has already interviewed a number of women, and has the approval of the ethics committee at Indiana University in Indianapolis.
While the Swedes did mother-to-daughter transplants, the Indiana group plans to rely on cadaver donors. Del Priore says he believes there would be an ample supply of suitable uteruses from current multiorgan cadaver donors.
He says tens of thousands of American women are potential candidates for uterine transplants. They include young women who have had hysterectomies for cancer,endometriosis and uterine trauma. Another group is women born without a uterus.
 
Other medical centers in the U.S. and Britain also hope to begin offering uterine transplants after a decade or so of animal research. It's the latest frontier in a medical field launched almost six decades ago with the first successful kidney transplant.
The Procedure
Uterine transplants have one unique feature: They'll be temporary.
Once a transplant recipient has achieved a successful pregnancy — or two, in the Swedish protocol — she will undergo a hysterectomy to remove the foreign uterus. That way, she won't be exposed to a lifetime of immunosuppressive drugs with their risks of increased infection and other disorders.
A 10-person team at the University of Gothenburg in Sweden did the first mother-to-daughter uterine transplants last weekend.
I don't think it's a simple discussion by any stretch. You know, when you're the patient, then you fully understand the issues. When you're just theoretically discussing these things, unless it actually hits home, I think you don't really fully understand it.
One of the recipients lost her uterus to cervical cancer. The other was born without a uterus.
"They're doing fine, both the donors and the recipients," transplant surgeon Michael Olaussontold Shots. "All four women are doing fine."
But Olausson acknowledges that the success of the experiment is far from assured. The recipients will be monitored for a year to see if the transplants settle in and behave like normal uteruses — cycling through menstrual periods, avoiding signs of rejection.
Then the doctors will implant previously frozen embryos from these women and hope all goes well. By that schedule, the outcome of the experiment will be known sometime in mid-2014.
Olausson says he's confident the transplanted uteruses can withstand the mechanical stresses of pregnancy, as well as undergo the growth and complicated remodeling necessary to carry and sustain a fetus.
A long series of experiments with mice, rats, sheep, pigs and baboons showed that these animals could accept uterine transplants and give birth to healthy offspring. "So we don't think there will be a problem," he says.
One of the women who donated her uterus to her daughter is past menopause.
"It does not really matter if they are menopausal or not because the uterus can be sort of refurbished with hormones," Olausson says. "So that's not a problem in itself."
'Don't Get Too Excited Just Yet'
Some experts are concerned about the risks of anti-rejection drugs during pregnancy — not only because of possible infection but also because of other problems, such as high blood pressure and premature delivery. But Olausson points out that as many as 15,000 women have had successful pregnancies after undergoing other organ transplants.
The Swedish uterine transplants are not the first. In 2000, a Saudi Arabian group transplanted a uterus from a live donor. But within three months, it developed blood clotting problems and had to be removed.
Last year Turkish doctors said they had transplanted a uterus into a 21-year-old woman from a cadaver donor, but experts in the field don't believe that has resulted in a pregnancy yet.
One leading U.S. obstetrician-gynecologist, Dr. Michael Green of Massachusetts General Hospital, cautioned against premature enthusiasm about uterine transplants.
"Don't get too excited quite yet," he told Shots. "[It's] too soon to make a judgment."
Green questions whether this kind of transplant is really necessary. When doctors began transplanting organs in the 1950s, '60s and '70s, they started with organs essential for life — kidneys, hearts and livers. Lately they've been doing what Green calls "optional" transplants — of limbs, voice boxes, even faces.
"Nobody needs a uterus to live, OK?" Green says. "Nobody needs a hand or a face to live, in fairness. It's a quality-of-life issue. This is in that same category. So we've opened the door. We've stepped through it. And this is one of the next logical things that people might do."
He wonders whether health care dollars should be spent on uterine transplants when a woman who lacks a uterus can turn to a surrogate mother to provide her with a child — if she can afford it, that is.
But Dr. James Grifo of New York University Medical School says he hopes the Swedish experiment and other such efforts succeed.
Grifo has done his own research on uterine transplants but abandoned that work to pursue other priorities. He said in an interview that he was uncomfortable with the possible risks. But he sympathizes with women who might want a uterine transplant.
"I don't think it's a simple discussion by any stretch," Grifo told Shots. "You know, when you're the patient, then you fully understand the issues. When you're just theoretically discussing these things, unless it actually hits home, I think you don't really fully understand it."
The Swedes plan to do 10 more uterine transplants. The next two could be in a matter of weeks.