Motto

“If you get caught up in the worst case scenario and it doesn’t happen, you’ve wasted your time. And if you are caught up in the worst case scenario and it does happen, you’ve lived it twice.” -Michael J. Fox

8.18.2020

Wes is now FOUR!

(Wes turned 4 in mid-July. Clearly I'm behind in my posts) 



Height: 3' 8" (96% percentile). The doctor laughed and said that Wes is the same height as an average 5.5 year old!! He grew A LOT during the shelter in place.

Weight: 43 lbs (97% percentile)

Physical milestones: Like Izzy, Wes is a super fast runner. He is riding a two wheeler bike and got a new scooter for his birthday so he is getting the hang of the easier-to-maneuver scooter. Back in February he needed floaties for when we were in Hawaii but after time in the pool this summer, no longer needs them and is pretty comfortable in the water.

Language/Reading: Wes can recognize a few of the "easier" letters and can recognize his own name. He also can write a W by himself.

Loves: Star Wars, Harry Potter, light sabers, legos, riding his bike, cherry tomatoes, searching for bugs




Personality: Wes is competitive like Izzy but once he starts losing to her, he gives up (for instance when he runs against her). He isn't as much of a daredevil as Izzy (thank goodness) and wants to wait until he thinks he can do something until he wants to try it. He is definitely a class clown and wants to make people laugh.

Favorite Toy: Right now it would have to be blow up light sabers that we got as favors for Wes' birthday party. He constantly wants to fight anyone that will play with him.




Favorite Book: It's a tie between a Star Wars encyclopedia he got for his birthday and the "Notebook of Doom" books we got him for his birthday.

Sleeping Habits: These days he goes to bed around 8-8:30 and wakes up around 8am....but can sleep as late as 9:30 if he is up late. He doesn't nap much anymore.
Eating: Wes is a more adventurous eater than Izzy and will try a lot of stuff (he doesn't do spicy). He will almost always eat fish with us and recently decided that he likes shrimp and crab cakes as well!

Potty: Wes waits until the last minute most of the time to go to the bathroom but generally no issues during the day. He still needs a pullup at night.

Clothes: Size 5t for clothes, size 13 for shoes. He is obsessed with his Batman tshirt or his Darth Vader surfing shirt he got in Hawaii and athletic shorts.

Media: During the shelter in place the kids were getting 1-2 hours of tv a day plus Ipad time. Now that they are back in camp/daycare they are only watching tv on the weekends and when we have Friday night movie night. Ipad use is back to nothing.

Birthday: We had a family birthday in MI during Fourth of July because my parents and my sister/her husband could all attend. His actual birthday was on a Wednesday so I took the kids out for donuts the morning of his birthday and he had ice cream that night (he wanted mac n cheese and shrimp for his birthday dinner). The following weekend we had some friends over for a small Star Wars-themed party. It was approximately a billion degrees out that day and we had the bouncy house, slip and slide, a pinata, pizza and cake, and then an outdoor movie (Star Wars of course).








8.17.2020

Still alive

Hello out there! I can't believe I haven't posted since the beginning of June, but things continue to stay busy in our neck of the woods. I'll try to catch everyone up as to what has been going on....

JUNE
In June we were DYING with the kids home and both of us trying to work. I was still working ALL.THE.TIME (actually I haven't stopped) and since camp wasn't starting, we managed to find someone who babysit for us a few times before that could babysit the kids for 8 hours/day during the week. She had been really good about social distancing so we felt okay with our decision. She made life a lot easier for the month that she was with us and there were only a few times when Wes came into a video call I was having for work (one with elected officials as I was trying to give a presentation to cry about his broken shark toy- good times).


These are our crumbling concrete front steps....




Wes really enjoyed watching the men that were fixing them.

Not quite finished product, but close enough


The cicadas at our house were SO LOUD this summer. I guess this year was both a 13 year brood and early risers from the next 17 year brood. The kids had fun catching them, helping them fly away, and Wes even named a few. Thankfully they are mostly gone now, but they left dead carcasses everywhere.




We celebrated CP's birthday in style by ordering out Alinea, a super fancy multi-Michelin star restaurant that costs something like $400/plate for a 15 course meal if you are dining in person (before adding alcohol). During COVID-19 though, they offered a much less expensive 6 course delicious meal, so I surprised CP with take out. It was really, really good.




Like with Mother's Day, Izzy wanted to make sure that CP had a good birthday so she made him a pinata and a scavenger hunt. It was adorable and I loved how she put so much thought and effort into it.


JULY

We spent a long Fourth of July weekend with my parents at their house in Michigan. I was supposed to take one day off (Thursday) but then ended up working half the day because meetings popped up that I had to attend (sigh). We had a great time otherwise with a family party for Wes' birthday and then on Sunday CP and I got to drive back to IL WITHOUT THE KIDS. My mom had offered to take the kids for a week earlier in the year and it was desperately needed to spend some time away, just the two of us. CP and I still had to work during the day but I didn't work at night (well, one night) and we got to hang out, go to dinner almost every night, and enjoy each other's company. The next weekend we drove back to MI to spend the weekend there and pick up the kids. They had a great time; grandma was a little exhausted (lol).

Once getting back from MI the kids went to summer camp which meant they were out of the house (!), back on a schedule, and playing with friends. The camp does an excellent job with safety (temperature checks, questions upon arrival, masks inside, etc.) so we felt comfortable with the kids there all day. Wes had about two weeks of rough drop-offs because he wanted to be home with me, but got back into the schedule and enjoyed being back with friends. I'm happy to report NO COVID cases for either camp!





Enjoying the dinosaur sprinkler, the baby pool, and the watermelon beach ball given to Wes by my sister for his birthday.

Watching Hamilton our outdoor movie screen on July 3rd. Izzy LOVED it and cried at the end when Hamilton died. Wes stayed awake the entire time. Both kids frequently request us to play the soundtrack- parenting win!



Wes obviously helped decorate his cake. :-)


Enjoying ice cream during grandma week.



Michigan beach


Wes came home to open a lot of Star Wars-themed gifts from family members.




We ended up having a very small birthday party for Wes in our back yard with our "quaranteam families" where our slip and slide that CP bought earlier in the year made an appearance. 


Oh and halfway through July I read an intermittent fasting book because I had gained some weight during our shelter in place and started fasting for slightly longer periods than I had been doing. I also started to try to drink black coffee which I still choke down, but it's getting a little better every day. 

I also got fed up with my daily plantar fasciitis pain no matter what I did so I saw a doctor and decided to get a cortisone shot. It's been nice to walk/work out without pain but I'm not sure I will ever run again......

AUGUST

So far in August the kids finished up camp. We learned that Izzy would be starting off going remote for 1st grade so we have essentially enrolled her in 1st grade daycare (*groan*)....but it will be outside of our house, she will be with 9 other friends, and will have teachers helping her do her e-learning. CP is back at work every day but with remote e-learning he has gotten the go-ahead to work from home two days a week starting next week. 

We were supposed to go to Wisconsin for a week of camping with friends but didn't go because then we would have to quarantine for two weeks as a family and Wes couldn't go to daycare. Sadly, I didn't get my badly-needed vacation time.....hopefully soon.

Today was Wes' first day of Pre-K and he had a great day ("Mommy, I didn't have any consequences!"). This week is going to be tough as I found a camp that will take Izzy from 9-3 (school/1st grade daycare doesn't start until next week) but I generally have calls from 9-6 so she will be watching tv/amusing herself while I am on those calls until CP gets home with Wes.


Izzy has now lost 7 teeth!



We are trying to make sure the kids get out and get a lot of exercise. Our local pool is open for up to 100 people during a two hour block so we often reserve time slots when we can. Both kids are going off the small diving board and Wes is actually swimming without floaties! Now that Wes is on a two wheeler we have been doing long family bike rides too- up to 7 miles for the kids and they are doing great!





I thought it would be fun to get this bird feeder so that the cats could watch birds come to the window. Cocoa is OBSESSED and the birds couldn't care less these days that he is jumping at them in the window. Keeps him nice and occupied for some of the day.


Brain dump over. Time to get back to work (*sigh*).