Motto

“If you get caught up in the worst case scenario and it doesn’t happen, you’ve wasted your time. And if you are caught up in the worst case scenario and it does happen, you’ve lived it twice.” -Michael J. Fox

10.30.2014

Santa Fe

This past weekend CP and I jetted off to Santa Fe, NM for our five year anniversary celebration trip. I originally had suggested just driving somewhere within 4 hours of our house for a weekend, but CP realized that he had airline miles and hotel points so he suggested NM. I have been wanting to go to NM for a while and we didn't have the time to go when we lived in Denver, so I was happy he suggested the destination. 

Fun fact, now that I have been to NM, that knocks another state visited off my list! I am only missing ND, SD, MT, ID, OR, WA and (I think) OK. I will get into the Pacific Northwest at some point. That is definitely a priority!

We arrived Thursday night and luckily found a restaurant still open for dinner at 10pm at night (Elevation Bistro).  It was delicious and due to the 7200+ altitude in Santa Fe, my one glass of wine hit me pretty quickly.

Friday we decided to start the day off with a walking tour of Santa Fe to get our bearings. We learned about the architecture and arts scene in Santa Fe, went into the room that was the gateway for the Los Alamos complex (aka the Manhattan Project), and we went into a few churches. (We ended up buying the book 109 East Palace  to learn more about Los Alamos. CP has it in Mississippi on his current trip and will be taking it to Thailand this weekend...hopefully I get a crack at it soon.)

Learning about the architecture of the New Mexico Museum of Art


Outside of the Basilica of St. Francis of Assisi

Admiring the beautiful painted arches in the church



The "miracle staircase" in Loretto Chapel
After the tour it was suggested that we go to lunch at The Shed, so we headed over there for delicious margaritas (and I usually don't like margaritas) and food. Afterwards we hit up the Georgia O'Keefe museum which was a mistake. I would not recommend a trip there. We walked around the city a little and then headed up to Canyon Road, a road with galleries on either side of the road for what seems like forever. There is quite a mix of landscapes, modern art, sculptures, mixed media, etc. so it was like going into a lot of small art museums. After a seven mile run the day before and tons of walking in the altitude, my legs were starting to really hurt so we decided to go for a less expensive meal at El Paseo Bar & Grill. Too bad the Yelp stars were unwarranted- it was our only bad meal of the weekend. We ended up going home and passing out by 9:30pm after watching the World Series!

Saturday we woke up and ate breakfast at Cafe Pasqual's, a famous restaurant in Santa Fe. It was well worth it. We then had a busy day at the New Mexico History museum, shopped a bit at the Palace of the Governors, visited Nedra Matteucci Galleries (a large gallery with some works of art selling for over $200,000!), did a wine tasting at Vino del Corazon, then headed up to Bell Tower Bar for great views of the city. We finished the day with our anniversary dinner at Coyote Cafe which was amazing.

Palace of the Governors. The oldest continuously occupied public building in the US. Every day American Indians from the pueblos come to sell jewelry and other handmade items underneath the overhang.


Los Alamos room in the New Mexico History Museum

Outdoor garden at Nedra Matteucci Galleries

One of the amazing, but ridiculous sculptures at the Nedra Matteucci Gallery. Can you imagine putting this in your backyard?



Wine tasting in downtown Santa Fe (we didn't have a car so this was the only winery within walking distance)

View from the Bell Tower Bar

After our fantastic dinner we went back to the hotel and had a drink at the hotel bar while watching the World Series.

Sunday morning we knew we didn't have a lot of time before our flight so we had a great breakfast at the Plaza Cafe before heading back to our room to pack up and head to the airport. I already miss the mountains...

Goodbye Santa Fe!


I know that CP is sick of traveling but I'm glad that I pushed for this trip. We both love Izzy and are so excited that she is here, but I think that it is healthy for parents to get some time away from their child. Especially with CP traveling so much it's not like I get to see him that much these days as it is- so to have three whole days of just us was nice. I can't imagine that this is something that we would do every year, but I am excited that we were able to get away while Izzy got some special time with her grandparents.



10.27.2014

Microblog Mondays




It's always crazy to find out that someone that you know has also gone through IVF. On our way back from the Smoky Mountains trip, CP and I stopped at my cousin's house for a quick visit. I finally got to meet her three kids and within the first 15 minutes of the visit, my cousin revealed that her first two kids were products of IVF. "Funny you should mention that because Izzy is a product of IVF as well" I said, completely shocking her.

I never would have guessed that she had gone through IVF, although now I understand why they kept talking about their third child as being quite a surprise (I guess doctors told them it would be a 1 in a million chance because of his sperm). :-) It was great to trade IVF stories and to know that my cousin and her husband know exactly what we have been through. In fact, the reason that they had to miss our wedding was because it was right in the middle of her first cycle. I also found out that my step second cousin, the one that helped CP interview for his current position, tried to have a child through IVF and it didn't work.

I know that 1 in 8 couples struggles to conceive, but it is always amazing to find another infertile person in my life.


Want to read more Microblog Mondays? Go here.

10.22.2014

Day in the Life- Fall 2014

New season, new day in the life installment. This time I decided to chronicle a weekend when CP was around, so this was our Saturday. 

Thanks again Laura for this great idea! Interested in doing a DITL post? You have until November 3rd!


7:27- Wake up and my back is killing me. Getting out of bed hurts. Buster shakes his head, jostling his collar, which is meant to hurry me up. I hit the bathroom, change my tampon, and pop some motrin. I head downstairs, grab a jacket and take Buster out. Towards the back of our yard Buster smelled something delicious (ugh) and decided to roll in it. Gross. I head back inside to grab Buster's food from the basement and move sheets from the washer to the dryer. Meanwhile upstairs CP makes Izzy's bottles for the day.

8- Izzy starts making noise. I head upstairs but call for CP as I need help with giving Izzy her eye drops (she had an eye infection late last week). I change her diaper, put on clothes, then we sit in the glider for her bottle. CP jokes that Izzy has already given up on life because I have put her in sweatpants today. After her bottle, Izzy checks out my new t-shirt from our TN vacation (there is a bear on the front). Lots of pointing at the bear. 

8:16- Izzy and I head downstairs. She is excited to see CP. She immediately pulls up on coffee table to play with the coasters while CP tries to get her to say daddy and give her kisses. She mainly wants to hit the coaster on the coffee table and then drop them on the floor.



8:35- CP plays with izzy and reads her "Brown Bear" while I make breakfast- two eggs and two pieces of toast with homemade strawberry jam.



8:41- I eat breakfast while CP reads a book just received yesterday from his mom- "The Littlest Mouse." It has a finger puppet which fascinates Izzy and she gives it a kiss (this is her new thing recently- kissing- tongue included of course- everything that she loves.) 

Kisses!


8:52- Izzy follows me into the kitchen. I try to wipe the poop smell off of Buster (from rolling outside) while Izzy plays with Buster's water bowl. I try to distract Izzy with magnets, but she goes back to the water bowl. *Sigh*

8:55- CP blends plain yogurt and frozen mango for Izzy's breakfast. Izzy has Cheerios and the mango yogurt while I run upstairs to put on deodorant and put in my contacts. 

All done! (Notice the yogurt on her nose and the Cheerios stuck to her hand.)


9:10- Back downstairs and outside to let Buster pee again and to try to brush the stench off him. It only partially works. :-(

9:15- CP and I try to figure out the day and the errands we need to run. We put Izzy in a box and push her around. She loves it. She also "plays" with Buster by throwing his ball at him.



9:50- CP and I make a grocery shopping list. I change diaper but get very frustrated because she won't stop squirming.

10- I realize Izzy is hungry because she didn't have much breakfast so I decide to give her a pouch. CP leaves for the grocery store and to get beer for tonight.

Why are you taking a picture of me Mom?


10:17- I put Izzy in the car and curse that it raining. During the ride I talk to Izzy and sing to her in order to keep her awake.

10:27- We arrive at Lowe's. On our shopping list? Leaf bags and paint. I unfortunately get a not-trained-well-enough employee at the paint counter so she has to get someone else to help her. Meanwhile, I give Izzy my secret weapon from my purse- an Eclipse gum container that sounds like a rattle. It keeps her interested while we wait.


Fancy toys in the NSC household. :-)



10:55- Done at Lowe's and we head over to DSW. It was a bust. I thought they would have kids shoes. I briefly contemplate going to Starbucks for a Chai Latte, but laugh at the drive thru line and head home. 

11:13- Back home I feed Izzy a bottle. CP calls wondering about lunch.

11:35- I bring Izzy up to her room, sing and try to keep her still while I change her poopy diaper. In order to finally get the diaper on her, I allow her to eat the bottom of the hand sanitizer bottle. Parent of the year here!

Chewing on things is my favorite!


11:38- Rock in chair with her for one minute then put her in crib. Turn on sleep giraffe. She immediately gets up to start playing with ribbit and bear. I head downstairs and turn on monitor. I hear her yakking away at the animals, but she is asleep by 11:45.



11:50- I check my email and buy two books from bookbub.com (free or discounted e-books). CP comes home with food and beer. We unpack the grocery bags, and CP starts make lunch (grilled cheese with prosciutto and tomato). I do dishes.

12:15- We eat lunch. We argue about whether I like prosciutto (I don't). LOL. I also eat an apple and some Terra chips.

12:35- CP starts to cook bacon and other ingredients to add to the already made sauerkraut for the party tonight. I read about terra cycle online and how they recycle hard to recycle products.

CP's homemade sauerkraut


12:52- I decide to take Buster on a walk and he is very excited. I hit the bathroom, put on my shoes, get him in his harness and head out the door. I immediately wish I brought gloves. Oh well.

I love walks!


1:22  One squirrel spotted, one barking at a dog through a fence incident, and two other dogs spotted and ignored later...we are home. I change pants to garden since Izzy is still asleep.

Tired Buster after our walk


I head outside to rip out tomato plants, put away the cages, then rip up swiss chard which seems to have mold. CP comes outside and rips up the hot pepper plants.




Possibly our last year for tomatoes (at least in this location).


Anyone know what this is on our swiss chard?


2pm- Izzy wakes up. CP grabs her and heats up her lunch (rice and beans, applesauce). I stay outside to pick green and yellow beans. I can't believe that the plants are still producing! 





I also snap a picture of our last daylily blooming. 

CP ordered an odd variety of bean (long and flat), but they are delicious!


3pm- CP heads outside to deal with the poblano plants while I stay with Izzy inside. We read "The Littlest Kitten" and "I'm Just a Little Horse", two new books from Izzy's grandmother. I make towers out of blocks that Izzy enjoys knocking down, then saying "uh oh." It's adorable. 






3:10 I put Izzy on the couch so that she can look out the window to see what Daddy is doing. Lots of smiles.



3:16- I grab a frozen teether for Izzy and she sucks on it for a few minutes while bouncing around on the couch.

3:22- We head upstairs to try to do some laundry. It ends up being half folding of laundry, half playing with Izzy and throwing her gently on the bed. Izzy also tries to "help" by throwing clothes out of the hamper.



3:42- I head downstairs to tell CP we need to start getting ready. CP grabs Izzy and they practice going up the stairs. I have yet to get video of stair climbing because it is impossible to film and also make sure that she doesn't fall so I grab my phone to film the achievement.

3:50- I pop into the shower while CP gives Izzy a bottle. After I am dressed I am handed Izzy who needs a poopy diaper change.

4:06- CP jumps in the shower while I struggle to change Izzy. Although she is fighting me she looks like she needs a nap. After getting clothes back on we rock for a minute and she goes in her crib. I head downstairs and turn the monitor on. She is standing and bopping around in the crib until 4:40 or so but finally falls asleep. Meanwhile I take the squash CP cooked earlier in the day for Izzy out of its skin, pack it up and put it in the fridge. I head upstairs to put on makeup and I find boots I bought before getting pregnant and haven't worn in almost two years. I'm happy that they didn't fall victim to my feet getting bigger after giving birth.




5:10 I head into Izzy's room to pick out an outfit for the party and to wake her up. I notice that she fell asleep using bear as a pillow. Awwww.




5:25- We head over to neighbor's party. Oktoberfest! We feed Izzy bratwurst and cheese and drink beer while hanging out.




6:55- Izzy starts to get fussy so I decide to bring her home. She is still a bit hungry so we have a banana. Afterwards we head upstairs where I give her a book while I change her diaper (success! It is much easier to change her!) and put on her pajamas. Izzy gets a bottle, I rock her and sing "You are my Sunshine" and "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star." I tell her that I love her and that I will see her tomorrow. A few kisses later she is lowered into her crib, the sleep giraffe is turned on, and I am closing the door to her room.




Waving goodnight to the camera

7:30- I head downstairs, put on the monitor and wait for her to fall asleep. A few minutes later I put CP's phone next to the monitor and call my phone, putting my phone on speaker (the monitor doesn't reach to my neighbor's house). I head back over to the party and I check on her and Buster twice- Buster is upstairs outside her room keeping a good watch on her door. :-)

Midnight- CP and I head home from the party and are asleep by 12:20. I wisely don't drink that much so I wake up on Sunday feeling not too bad.

10.21.2014

Gatlinburg, TN vacation

Before this trip gets too far away I want to make sure I post on our trip to the Great Smoky Mountains National Park. We drove down and stayed in Gatlinburg, TN which is right outside of the park.

As I mentioned in Izzy's 10 month post, she had a lot of firsts on this trip. This was her first time going to an aquarium and despite the fact that this aquarium was in TN it was actually a great one for her. There was a moving walkway where fish, sharks, manta rays, etc. could all swim around us and above us. Izzy thought this was fascinating and did a lot of pointing!

There's a shark above me!


Ohhh jellyfish
We did a number of hikes and Izzy saw her first few waterfalls. She was so comfortable in the hiking backpack that she fell asleep on one of the hikes!

Halfway up the Mt Laurel Falls hike



Mt Laurel falls


Behind Grotto Falls

View from Clingman's Dome parking lot



The final few steps up to Clingman's Dome, the highest point in the Park. We picked a great day and had fantastic views!


It was a little windy at the top of Clingman's Dome!


Beginning Andrew's Bald hike which led into a meadow with views of the mountains.

This was our first time in a cave. It was a little hard for the toddlers to listen to the guide and Izzy freaked out when the lights were turned out and the cave turned pitch black, but she calmed down quickly.

In the cave

Sleeping bat


Colorful lights in the cave

We took a trip up to Ober Gatlinburg which is essentially the local ski area. All of us having gone to school in CO laughed at the "extreme terrain" shirts they sold at the gift shop because, come on. This trip was mainly for the toddler set as they got to go on a few of the rides but the adults had fun on the alpine slide. Izzy enjoyed the playground and went down a playground slide for the first time (on my lap).

She enjoyed whatever this thing is called.


We made her wear funny hats and pose for silly pictures.

Izzy's first carousel! She held onto me with a death grip.

Otherwise, we did a whole lot of swimming, we took a group (14 people!) Old Tyme photo which is hilarious because one toddler refused to put on a costume and in the picture we selected, Izzy is trying to eat her foot. A keeper for sure. :-)