*I finally heard from my doctor after asking them if it was a problem that CP had pneumonia. They asked what kind he had (viral or bacterial) and I wasn't sure the doctor at the outpatient clinic even told him. But once I told the nurse that he was taking antibiotics, she said that he had the "good kind" of pneumonia- aka the non-contagious one (bacterial). However, she was concerned that I had a sore throat and that I was producing some yellow phlegm so she put me on an antibiotic. I didn't think that it was totally necessary as I basically feel fine, but the Z-pack is safe during pregnancy so I decided to get rid of whatever is in me.
*CP and I went to our local farmer's market on Saturday. We were getting fresh veggies and fruits to can and freeze. We ended up making Raspberry Preserves, Caribbean Peach Chutney, tons of pesto from basil in our garden, and tons of chicken stock. Oh, and I was able to get 12 ears of fresh corn for $4 so I was in heaven!!
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| Raspberry preserves on the left, Caribbean Peach Chutney on the right |
*CP started reading his Expectant Father book. I randomly picked it up to see if it said anything about being extra nice to your wife (ha ha ha) and noticed that the author had a small section on infertility. The author was explaining how the embryo is implanted into the uterus during IVF. Thankfully in the front of the book the author included his email address for any comments or questions. I decided to email the author to let him know that he should change the terminology from "implanted" to "transferred." If all embryos were implanted during IVF then everyone would get pregnant! To my shock the author wrote back a few minutes later thanking me for my email and saying that he was going to be doing an update of the book and that sort of information is helpful.
*We have one more week of helping lift Fuzzy Britches up and down the stairs to take her out. I'm crossing my fingers that next Wednesday the vet gives her the all clear to take the stairs herself because it is getting harder to lift most of her 76 pound body up and down a few stairs the bigger I get.
*The past two days my ankles have been swollen despite it not being that hot out outside. After helping to make dinner, I sat my butt on the couch and put my feet above my heart the rest of the night to try to get the swelling to go down. It didn't really do anything so I ended up sleeping on my back last night with my feet on the Snoogle plus two more pillows. Of course when I woke up this morning I was convinced that I had killed the baby because I slept on my back. I was relieved to feel movement after drinking some orange juice this morning, but I simply don't know what to do with this stupid swelling. I keep telling myself that although it is annoying, swelling is SO MUCH BETTER than morning sickness and/or not being pregnant.
*I finally was able to sit down and watch MTV's True Life episode about infertility. I think that the ladies did a great job and I'm proud of them for putting themselves out there. The random thing about it was that the Chicago couple not only had the same RE doctor as me but also went to the same clinic for both appointments and for the retrieval/transfer (they were in two different locations). Crazy!!
*On Friday CP and I have three daycare tours lined up. I have no idea what to ask- any suggestions on things that we should be thinking about?
7 comments:
Good catch on your part, and how cool that he was so receptive!
It's always great when "famous" people are open to constructive feedback.
Daycare tours ... TRUST YOUR GUT ... that's the most important thing. Ask if you can see the daycare during the day when teachers and kids are around (our daycare said yes, but not until our name was taken off the waiting list, which was fine). Find out if the infant room is on a set schedule or whether they let the baby lead the way (in terms of feedings, naps, how long they nap, etc.). Ask about how they address conflict (e.g., redirect, time out, etc.). Can you visit the daycare without an appointment (once your child is enrolled)? Find out their holiday schedule (some daycares follow the same schedule as local schools; others just the major holidays, etc.). Find out what kind of training the staff gets and whether there is continuing education throughout the year? Do the kids get outdoor time - if so, where (onsite playground, neighborhood walks, park, etc.)? Ask what meals are provided (for older kids) and whether you can bring your own breast milk or formula for infants. How do they address toilet training?
Total brain dump, but you essentially want to ask questions to see if they will care for your child in a way that's safe (#1!!!), but also in a way that feels right to you and CP. I just came across this link that provides a pretty comprehensive set of questions for you to consider: http://www.ahdaycare.com/daycare_checklist.htm.
I am pretty sure that sleeping on your back is about you, not the baby. I think it's a question of whether the uterus will press down on some arteries and reduce your blood flow, making you dizzy. In other words, you would very likely become uncomfortable and WANT to roll over well before you experienced any problematic side effects. Some women have much more trouble with back-lying than others. It never bothered me with Callum, but our ultrasound techs told us some women get dizzy so quickly that they have to have ultrasounds while lying on their sides. So basically, if it's a problem, you will know. So don't worry! You are not going to kill your baby!
Would you believe I've been trying to make it to the Farmer's Market once this whole pregnancy? So, so sad. I can think of at least four that fit into my schedule. I want all of that delicious produce and I really have no idea what my excuse is.
About carrying your dog...I had to get a doggie ramp so my 120 lb dog can walk into my car for his chemo treatments. Unexpected things that happen...
That's awesome that the author wrote back right away like that!
Also, I love your farmer's market creations - I've always wanted to try canning and jarring things but it's a bit intimidating.
You guys are so awesome about eating cleaning and making food!
Pretty cool that the author wrote back. Great job on sending him that correction! Sorry about the swelling. Just another thing I have to look forward to! I've heard mixed things about sleeping on your back. I've been told that you will KNOW when you should not be on your back anymore. For those of us that have never experienced that, HOW do we KNOW? Oh, also, so jealous of your goodies made from the farmers market. I've been wanting to make jam, but I'm just not comfortable doing it myself. Plus, I'd have to find time to do it! Great job to you and CP!
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